I see people that they are unhappy and don’t dare to do what they want, because there are other people that are doing better than them, they are realistic in their life, they know that they can’t do it better than other people, so there is no reason to move on.
But what they do not think is: that the majority of people started from zero, made mistakes and became better through learning through the mistakes, and this is the real reality of every person. Thinking that you can’t make it, without trying to do it, is not the reality, is not being “realistic”, but is holding you back from what you want to experience, because you are afraid of what can go wrong.
Always have in mind that:
When you say “I am realistic” be careful if you really are, or you think that you are!